Parents have been dubbed “cheapskates” after asking if they should ask relatives who wanted copies of the child’s school photos to help contribute to the cost.
The Australian parents debated whether or not to involve relatives and decided to submit their dilemma to the popular ‘Mouth of mums’ Facebook group.
My partner and I are having a discussion about whether family members who want school photos should pay $5 for a photo to help pay. I don’t think they should and he thinks they should. What does everyone think?’ the mother asked.
Australian parents have sparked debate online after asking whether it was appropriate to ask relatives who want copies of their child’s school photos to help cover costs
The post received a deluge of comments from fellow parents, most of whom sided with the mother, with some even saying it was “rude” and “tight” to ask for money for school photos.
‘That’s quite rude. Stop being a cheap skater and give them a fucking picture. Geez people are so tight,” complained one woman.
‘Time for a new partner,’ another joked.
The mother explained that she likes to give the photos away, while her partner wants people to pay $5, which led to Facebookers calling him “rude” and “tight”.
“Parents pay for the photos and give them to relatives, it’s been that way for years,” a third agreed.
A fourth said, ‘It’s your kids, your family should get a photo that isn’t charged for it.’
Some people came up with helpful suggestions like buying cheaper digital copies to send to people, while others were hesitant.
“If they ask and you have to buy extras, yes, then they have to buy, if you give them to be nice, then paying is a no,” replied a mother.
“I just buy digital copies and they pay to print them themselves,” explained a second.
Though outnumbered, many parents defended the father who wanted to ask relatives to contribute, pointing out that school photo packages can be too expensive for some families.
“Unless you can’t afford the package of extras to hand out and the family really wants one, suggest they help pay for it. I can barely afford the cheapest package myself,” writes a mother.
Though outnumbered, many parents defended the father who wanted to ask relatives to contribute, pointing out that school photo packages can be too expensive for some families
“It seems like an unpopular opinion, but I would ask for the money if they want a photo if I can’t afford it,” added a second.
“They’re pretty expensive, I don’t think it’s a bad idea, especially in tough times,” commented another parent.
A single mother of two said she rarely buys school photos of her five- and eight-year-old children because she can’t afford them, but has recently made more than $100.
“I won’t ask anyone to pay for one because I have the most basic and cheapest package and they already come with too many pictures for just myself,” she explained.
“But if I had family who care enough to want one or expect one every year, I’d have no problem asking them to contribute to the cost.”